I know what I'm missing... flirting. Especially drive-by flirting. There used to be at any given company I worked for a list in my head of at least 3-4 guys I could go flirt with. I'd drop by their desks, get a little eye-candy, a little lingering eye contact, throw out a witty bon mot and go back to my day feeling that little tingly glow of connection, of anticipation of the next time, of validation that for a moment another person found you attractive, and vice versa. It didn't have to be with people who were dateable, just someone that is attractive to me in some manner (not necessarily physical, although that's the most fun) - and some of my best flirting was with guys who were definitely unattainable, perhaps because everyone knew what the boundaries were, and it was much more fun to skate up to that line at speed and then away. This is now missing from my life. How did this slip by unnoticed? Hmm... how to re-acquire targets? Hmmm...
Oh, and since I didn't publish any of my quiz scores from Amanda and PQBON's quizzes of last week(?), the only quiz result I have is that I'm a silly flirt - apparently I'll do anything for a laugh.
Posted by cshell at July 12, 2003 03:25 PM